For many, the period of time leading up to a divorce filing can be stressful. There are a multitude of issues that must be addressed, and it can be difficult to know what to expect or where to start. One way to lessen the fear of the unknown when it comes to divorce is to take the time to sit down with a Connecticut divorce attorney and go over the process as it relates to your own unique situation. Doing so can not only make the experience seem less intimidating, it can also help the attorney devise the best strategy for you, saving both time and money in the long run.
When preparing to meet with an attorney for the first time, it is important to understand what is expected and how the meeting will be structured. One hurdle that many spouses face is having to speak with a complete stranger about intimate details of their married life. However, the attorney needs to know the reasons behind the divorce in order to know how to proceed with the process.
Another aspect of the initial consultation involves being able to provide the attorney with an overview of the family finances. The more information you can provide at the onset of the process, the easier it is for the attorney to devise a negotiating strategy. While it is not imperative that you have exact numbers at the initial meeting, it is a good idea to have a list of all income, assets and debts, with estimated values for each.
By providing well-organized information concerning the financial holdings within the family, the attorney can give you an idea of what your finances might look like at the end of the divorce process. This can be a huge advantage when it comes to determining a prospective budget for the first few years after the divorce. In addition, by going through the steps to prepare for the initial meeting, many Connecticut spouses will feel as if they are taking control of the process, which can bolster spirits for the challenges that may lie ahead.
Source: Huffington Post, "Making The Most Of Your Consultation With A Divorce Lawyer," Lisa M. Gregg, March 14, 2013